If you feel as though someone had a huge part in disrupting your life, then hate is indeed a reasonable emotion, misplaced or not. It doesn't necessarily mean you act on that feeling, or hold them entirely responsible, or whatever, but it's very real and palpable. In this situation, dislike vs. hate is pretty much semantics, if you ask me. One is a more acute version of the other.
I'm glad you managed to be cool with the girl your boyfriend cheated on you with, but if I'm ever in the same room as the woman who my ex left me for, I can't promise it'll be pretty. And I'm ok with that.
I'm glad you managed to be cool with the girl your boyfriend cheated on you with, but if I'm ever in the same room as the woman who my ex left me for, I can't promise it'll be pretty. And I'm ok with that.
OR, it could mean that the partner and the other man/woman are both assholes. It doesn't have to be one or the other. Sure, the cheating lover is the most culpable; that person broke the agreement and committed the most personal betrayal. But if you are party to an affair you did something shitty. No, you cannot "steal" an actual person, but it's a fucked up thing to pursue someone already in a committed relationship. It speaks volumes about your character.
Also, it's not exactly rational to hate the person your lover left you for, but it's understandable. I speak from experience.
Also, it's not exactly rational to hate the person your lover left you for, but it's understandable. I speak from experience.
I know Dov is an asshole, but I live for their crossback bras (I'm 30, btw). Really comfortable in the summer and provide ample support for my modest b cups. I haven't found any that compare, really.
I've also bought a couple of their belts recently, and a romper. Either they're getting better in the design department, or I have no taste. Or both.
I've also bought a couple of their belts recently, and a romper. Either they're getting better in the design department, or I have no taste. Or both.
PM'ed.
Wait, average is code for anything but average? So, what do you say if you're actually average? I'm not thin or skinny, but I'm not overweight, either. This is confusing.
PM'ed you.
Yeah, one thing, apparently, next to my name it says "replies very selectively." So, it's almost like a red flag right off the jump. Having said that, I've reached out to a few guys who haven't replied and I seriously wonder why. I pointed things out that we had in common! He's not "out of my league!" What the hell, man?!
Ugh, I hate dating.
Ugh, I hate dating.
What's weird is that I intuitively follow all or most of these rules, my profile is a good mix of witty and honest, I have two decent pics, am fairly attractive, but I don't feel I get as many messages/responses as I should be getting. I'm constantly tweaking my profile because I thought that maybe it was TOO snarky and not earnest enough, but realistically I just don't get it. People who I know would talk to me in real life ignore me on the 'net. What am I doing wrong?!
Anyone want to PM me and analyze my OKC profile?
*I should add I average like 115 visitors per week, but the amount of actual messages I get is pathetic.
Anyone want to PM me and analyze my OKC profile?
*I should add I average like 115 visitors per week, but the amount of actual messages I get is pathetic.
So, she takes all the mustard in the store, only to never use the majority of it? What about the people who go to the store later that day, only to find they can't buy mustard because some batshit lady took it all? This is so greedy, I can't stand it. These women are compulsive.
Oh my god, YES.
How a face like this doesn't rule at life, I will never understand.
A vote for Persians is a vote for America, people.
A vote for Persians is a vote for America, people.
@fo'reals: I agree with everything you just said, especially with regard to Richard. God, he is such an arrogant prick, what with his putting down every other chef because they don't use liquid nitrogen like he does, or fishing for compliments by saying he hates everything he cooks. And his hair gets douchier by the minute.
By the way, I'm tired of every chef blathering on about "I'm here to win" and "Second best is still a loser." You don't have to beat us over the head with it, Producers. We get it, it's a competition.
Man, last night's episode was weak. I miss Dale.
By the way, I'm tired of every chef blathering on about "I'm here to win" and "Second best is still a loser." You don't have to beat us over the head with it, Producers. We get it, it's a competition.
Man, last night's episode was weak. I miss Dale.
I'm a groovy, but I like it. Your secret's safe with me.
I just get in and THEN tell them we're I'm going. Refuse to get out of the cab if they bitch and moan and remind them it's the law. I called 311 on a cabbie only one time using this method.
Ha, I love spinning, because it is in a controlled setting where I don't have to worry about traffic, there is music, and because it is a workout designed to be efficient for the amount of time you spend doing it. It also motivates me to get to the gym at a designated time. Different strokes for different folks.
I just started WW a few weeks ago. Being someone who normally rejects "low fat" and "fat free" stuff, I do find that they encourage you to drink skim milk or eat fat free cheese, for the benefit of saving points. I'm slowly starting to get over the sticker shock aspect of it all, but even if you read the articles they recommend skim, 0% Greek yogurt and the like. Not knocking WW, but I still think that, being a calorie-restrictive program, they have a slight ways to go in terms of rejecting the fat free bullshit that the food companies push on us.
I guess it's weird for me, because I was a whole foods-eating type person (mostly--I still love Pop Tarts, etc on occasion) before WW, I just need to eat a little less to get those pesky stubborn pounds off. It's different for everyone. But hear hear on the free veggies and fruit. That aspect attracted me to try it in the first place.
I guess it's weird for me, because I was a whole foods-eating type person (mostly--I still love Pop Tarts, etc on occasion) before WW, I just need to eat a little less to get those pesky stubborn pounds off. It's different for everyone. But hear hear on the free veggies and fruit. That aspect attracted me to try it in the first place.
Don't you know that if you don't toe the party line, you are immediately a misogynist, fat-hating asshole?
Things are NEVER more complicated or subtle than that.
(Thank you for this, BTW.)
Things are NEVER more complicated or subtle than that.
(Thank you for this, BTW.)
Isn't Boobs McGillicudy a divorcee? Or is Earth Jesus the one she snatched from the bosoms of his first wife? Do these people have no self-awareness? (Rhetorical question, I know.) I feel like that's kind of a big detail to overlook when one is judging someone else for their divorce.
@mrswillclark: Manicurists have a skilled trade.
