I had several students really take this to heart and they're now young adults with families of their own. Their family lives are MUCH different. Some days, thinking of them makes the awful of that day more bearable. #Groupthink
I believe the first step is realizing you are vulnerable. I regularly take 15 minutes before I leave to decompress. I also do a lot of visualization - imagine putting the issues in a folder then filing that folder in your drawer before you leave for the day. I'm really hard on myself when I dwell on work issues at home. If necessary I'll resort to other tasks that require my complete attention. Sometimes just reminding myself that dwelling on these things will not help is enough.
It gets better with time. #Groupthink
Any church that does not encourage questioning and discussion is in business only to lead sheep. I've always been a religious person even though I wasn't raised in a particular religion. I left Christianity years ago when I had a very specific set of questions that were never answered, and I changed churches 6 times in an effort to find those answers. Years later after moving to Lower Crapovia, I ran across a small Evangelical church entirely by accident. This church was in the middle of a transition and, even though I still didn't consider myself a "believer", I hung around to see what would happen.
This group left the Evangelical organization they belonged to, struck out on their own and QUESTIONED EVERYTHING. It is leading them in a great direction as a result and hopefully others will begin as well. I've never had a more wonderful experience than watching a group of people who had been led like sheep, believing a group of megachurch televangelists' every word, break free and think for themselves without giving up their faith. It has completely changed their lives and totally for the better.
This is what I think Christianity should be about, and your cousin is on a good road. I hope she isn't discouraged enough to give up along the way.
I know the sad feeling well. I'm an elementary teacher (music) and this year had a boy stay after his class for a couple of minutes to tell me all about how both of his parents were arrested the previous night (3 am - drug and weapons charges). He had experienced the terror of a police SWAT team breaking down the door in the middle of the night and he's only 8. I wish that was the only story but I have dozens.
Have you considered the fact that you may be the first adult who cared about what this kid said enough to at least report it? For all you know you could have changed his life. #Groupthink
People generally don't believe me when I tell them our 9 indoor cats and greyhound (soon to be 2) don't bother me much at all. The oldest in the group are 15 and the youngest is 14 weeks. I only have problems when one chooses to sleep on my face and I don't wake up until I start to cough. The kitten seems to bother me the most. If I'm away for several days I don't notice any difference.
Today I've been cleaning out the desk. He's said he was going to do that for the past 2 years but hell, I know it isn't going to happen any more than the garage, which has been cleaned once in the 11 years we've been here. By me, of course.
I've been the only one around here who has worked full time in almost a year and I'm still doing almost all of everything. Lately I've thought about going on strike. No meals, no cleaning, nothing. I'll do no more than he does. Maybe that'll get the point across! #Groupthink
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