I wrote something about Scully's facial expression as she performed an autopsy (on an episode) in a poem I once wrote. Yeah. That's not embarrassing at all.
Oh, you're a "choice" feminist! That explains everything. (I don't mean that sarcastically. I just adamantly disagree with the notion that "I'm a feminist and I made the choice to do something inherently anti-feminist" is a feminist act.)
Best wishes to you, though. Not trying to start a fight.
I appreciate your expertise, but I'm LOLing at your "the purpose of your ring is to give you a little sum of money you can carry around with you and sell if worse comes to worse." Since when?! I thought the purpose was to have a daily reminder of your love. (i have my body to sell if worse comes to worse.) (Kidding.)
For the OP -- I'm in your boat in that I do NOT want a diamond (though I could be swayed by some antiques). I've done a bit of research and I'm really into Morganite (also my name, which is handy, and I love what it represents).
That's when you have to reframe the debate. Because abortion isn't a moral issue; it's a practical one. The fact is, women have abortions. They always have; they always will. There will always be a woman somewhere who does not want or cannot carry the fetus she's carrying, whether for health or financial or a multitude of other reasons. And I care about that woman, in the way I care about all my neighbors. And so I'd rather her have a safe, legal option to abort a fetus she doesn't want. Because the alternative is to force her to carry it, or, more likely, to force her to get rid of it herself. And that's not good for her -- physically or emotionally -- and it's certainly not good for me, as her neighbor and fellow taxpayer.
At the end of the day, I care more about the humans who are fully-formed and walking around than I do about fetuses. I just do. Maybe your friends don't. They're allowed. But they're also not facing the truth: that women will always find ways to abort fetuses they don't want, because that's what they've always done. So let's all take off the blinders and actually work to make them safe and accessible (and rare, if that's your bag), rather than making them harder and a lot more risky for everyone involved.
That's what I'd tell your friends; that it's better to operate in reality than in a dreamworld.
You're speaking from a very US-centric pov, no? Many other countries use matrilineal naming traditions.
Also, no. Names are vital; when we name something, we're marking it, giving us dominion over it. So it's not "all the same." Names have meaning; words have meaning.
Exactly. I'm in a monog relationship, and I really, really like the intimacy of not using condoms. (And I like condoms!) I'm also someone who doesn't have too many bad side effects on the pill, though, so it works for me.
And after reading more about it, the whole thing just sickens me. Do celebs not make enough money as it is, really? The level of excess is just astonishing.