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When researchers asked college students to talk about a hookup scenario, they learned that "hookup culture" isn't nearly as male-dominated as many claim. And in some ways, dating may actually be worse for women. More »
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A letter to my brother, and all his college friends: More »
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Some say online dating and apps like Grindr are making the bar scene unnecessary for a generation of gay daters. Is the gay bar dying? More »
]]> http://jezebel.com/index.php?op=postcommentfeed&postId=5815928&view=rss&microfeed=true Welcome to Great Moments in Drunken Hookup Failure, where we showcase five heartwarming true stories of drunken love gone horribly awry. This week, we've got the Sarah Connor mental ward treatment and an oatmeal handjob. And away we go. [Deadspin] More »
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We asked you to tell us about your most memorable moments on the sauce, and several hundred of you responded. So much vomiting! So much collapsing! And so much quality writing. Good job, everyone. Without further ado, our ten favorites. More »
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Duke is in an uproar about a highly detailed "fuck list" that a recent female graduate made — in PowerPoint, complete with penis-size evaluations and dirty talk transcripts. We've got that document, and spoke exclusively to the now-contrite author. More »
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"Scientists have discovered that men, when deciding on who to date, really do make a decision based on a woman's curvy body, not her face, let alone her wit or brains." And yes, it gets worse from there. More »
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A new study finds that — shocker — people who have casual hookups aren't destroying their chance of long-term relationship. But that hasn't stopped the slut police. More »
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Because women do stupid shit for sex, too. Because it's not always that simple. Because you want a free sex toy. Tell us your story: What's the weirdest thing you've done in hopes of getting some? I'll start: More »
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Caitlin Flanagan claims adult indifference to hookup culture has driven sad, boyfriendless teens into the arms of sparkly vampires. Amid the weirdness, however, is one good point: teen girls do need a different kind of sex ed. More »
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Imagine the last person you'd ever want to see writing a sex and relationships blog for twenty-something women. Is that individual hook-up propagandist and befuddled old person Laura Sessions Stepp? Then it's your unlucky day. More »
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Perhaps burned out on publishing "poor little rich kids" stories, the New York Times has turned to dating instead, publishing an anti-hookup piece by Charles Blow that has set off a NYTimes commenting storm. More »
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In this day and age, it is truly not that hard to get laid. Or rather, it shouldn't be. Unfortunately, for far too many men in the world, through some combination of egotism, stupidity, bad text-messaging skills and utter immaturity, they manage to screw it up long before they manage to get it in. I believe we can call these men The Unfuckables. Having been dating now for more than half my life, often to hilarious effect, I have come across many Unfuckables in my time. These are their stories. More »
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I'll be the first to admit, I'm not one to turn down a party. And so when an e-mail hit my inbox to attend "Grind the Vote," a sex workers rights fund-and attention-raiser, I was all excited because normally D.C. fundraisers are more black-pumps-and-chardonnay and less black-fishnets-and-top-shelf-booze. But I was also interested in pushing my own limits, my own pre-conceptions and stereotypes, because I will fully admit that I am bothered by sex work. More »
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Shia who? Rihanna went home with Justin Timberlake after the VMAs, reports Media Take Out. "According to our source, who is a well known actor, Rihanna snuck out of the Palms hotel after-party with Justin and the two weren't seen again for the rest of the night." The source adds, "It was crazy because Jessica [Biel] was there and she was looking all over for [Justin] ... Poor girl." The awesome part? Rihanna was just quoted in Vibe Vixen: "I wouldn't have wanted to date white guys before, but they're killing it right now — Justin Timberlake, Orlando Bloom, Paul Walker ... Every hot guy I see is white." [MediaTakeOut] More »
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