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Welcome back to Guysourcing, where a panel of helpful gentlemen answer your questions! This week, we asked, (again by reader request — keep 'em coming, readers!) "What do you expect to see, pubic-hair-wise, when the pants come off? And what are your reactions to your partners' choice? Completely shaven? Landing strip? Trimmed? Au naturel? Do you have a preference?" Below, guys share their pubic preferences: More »
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When we talk about Hollywood's unrealistic beauty standards, we're usually talking about women. And with good reason — it's actresses who get relegated to mom roles at 35. But guys in Hollywood have standards to live up to also — and apparently they're using human growth hormone to do so. More »
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Welcome back to Guysourcing, where a panel of helpful gentlemen answer your questions! This week, again by reader request, we asked, "how do you feel about men who catcall at women? Have you ever done it? If so, why? Do you understand why other men do it?" Read on for the guys' responses. More »
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Welcome back to Guysourcing, where a panel of helpful gentlemen answer your questions! This week, by reader request, we posed this question: "What are your thoughts about having sex with virgins? Would you have sex with a virgin at your current age, assuming you were single? If yes, how and when would you like to be told that someone you were dating was a virgin? And how have your sexual encounters with virgins (when you weren't one yourself) differed — if at all — from sex with more experienced partners?" Below, guys answer. More »
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Welcome back to Guysourcing, where a panel of helpful gentlemen answer your questions! This week, at the request of a reader, we asked guys, "do you ever cry, and if so, what makes you cry? When/where is it okay for you to cry? When/where is it definitely not okay? How does crying make you feel and how do you deal with it?" Below, they respond. More »
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Welcome back to Guysourcing, where a panel of helpful gentlemen answer your questions! This week's question was the following: "how do you feel about condoms? Do you like them, hate them, feel neutral? Do you strongly prefer sex without them, or not so much? Do you have a favorite type or brand, and if so why? And have your feelings about condoms changed over time?" Read on for our guysourced answers. More »
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Welcome back to Guysourcing, where a panel of helpful gentlemen answer your questions! This week, inspired by a reader's inquiry, we asked guys, "I want to know what guys actually think about when giving oral sex. What do you notice? What do you not notice at all? Did you enjoy doing it initially, or is it something you learned to like?" We asked dudes of varying sexual orientations, but as it happened, the ones who responded talked about going down on ladies. Here's what they said: More »
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Welcome back to Guysourcing, where a panel of helpful gentlemen answer your questions! More »
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Amber Madison traveled the country asking straight single men to fill out a questionnaire about sex, love, dating, and relationships. She learned that men are much less dickish than pop culture would have you believe — but many of them aren't above lying for sex. More »
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Welcome back to Guysourcing, where a panel of helpful gentlemen answer your questions. This week's question was the following: "When was the last time you got into a physical fight? What was it about and how did it end? Would you fight again — and if so, what would make you fight? And do you think being willing/able to fight is an important part of masculinity?" Read on for guys' responses. More »
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Welcome back to Guysourcing, where a panel of helpful gentlemen answer your questions. This week's question concerns something many readers have questions about: balls. We asked dudes, "What do your balls like, and what do they hate? Do they respond to emotional stimuli like fear? Do you like to have partners touch or lick them? Anything surprising ladies should know about your balls?" Here's how they responded. More »
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Welcome back to Guysourcing, where a panel of helpful gentlemen answer your questions. This week's question is ripped from the headlines: Do you talk about your problems? Why or why not? And if so, who do you choose to talk to? More »
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Welcome back to Guysourcing, where a panel of helpful gentlemen answer your questions. This week, guys responded to a reader's request: "I want your 'How and Why I Lost My Virginity' stories." Let the tales of deflowering begin! More »
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Welcome to the first edition of Guysourcing, where a panel of helpful gentlemen answer and your questions. This week, we're starting with sexuality — specifically, if a dude identifies with a specific orientation, when and how did that come about? More »
]]> http://jezebel.com/index.php?op=postcommentfeed&postId=5823555&view=rss&microfeed=true Are you curious about ball maintenance? Wet dreams? Men's opinions on the so-called "he-covery"? Whether your concerns are high or low, you now have the chance to poll our carefully selected stable of anonymous guys on a topic of your choosing. You ask, they'll answer, and we'll report back. But first you need to ask! More »
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One consequence of all the hand-wringing over today's young men: guys who don't fit the stereotype of beer-swilling perpetual adolescent suddenly get put on a pedestal, even if they suck in other ways. Exhibit A: the advice columnist who deems a 19-year-old jerk great boyfriend material. More »
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Another day, another piece about how young men these days are losers. This kind of hand-wringing is sexist toward dudes — but it sucks for women too. More »
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We asked, you answered! Herewith, your tales of our the sensitive, real-life guys who rock your worlds and, if it ever starts to falter, restore your faith in the opposite sex. More »
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I'm closer to 40 than I am to 30 — not that you can go backwards — but I totally think that 18-year-old Taylor Lautner is hot. Is it okay for a grown woman to have a teenage crush? More »
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Say you just got a girl's phone number, and now you want to text your way into her heart. According to The TXT Book, you should start by calling her "penguin princess." More »
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Despite repeated efforts to debunk it, the old meme that "girls don't want nice guys" refuses to die. One reason: people keep confusing "nice guys" with total creeps. More »
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The word "love" may get thrown around a lot these days, but there's one group conspicuously not using the L-word: straight men when talking to each other. More »
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The response to our Worst Pickup Lines contest has been overwhelming — the dudes (and ladies) of the world have some seriously bizarro game. After the jump, the winners of our fabulous prizes, and eight teeth-licking, ass-smelling, incest-porn-discussing honorable mentions. More »
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An online phone retailer claims women are more attracted to men with iPhones, and while their research is obviously flawed, I'm ashamed to say it may have a grain of truth. More »
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YourTango has a really dumb story called "What A Woman's Stuffed Animals Say About Her." If you have a teddy bear in your apartment, you're down-to-earth! Got lots of dolls? You're a freak! But what does his nostalgic stuff say? More »
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Spring is in the air, which means it's time for Glamour to "interview" "guys" about "sex." Here's what the ladymag's sample of really real dudes really said about porn and "fun bits." More »
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"I've never liked men. I like guys." So begins the latest "Modern Love": More »
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"Notice anything different about this Glamour?" writes Editor-in-Chief Cindi Leive. "Yeah...that's right...there are men on it!" If you look closely, you might be able to see them — facelessly flanking a smiling Eva Longoria Parker. More »
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The NY Observer has put a name to yet another regrettable male archetype: L'Homme Fatal. This unassuming guy will lure you in with his self-deprecating charm and flattering attention - all to fuel his romance addiction. More »
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Last week we were concerned that Cosmo had gone minimalist, eliminating all but one paltry headline from its Kate-Hudson-emblazoned cover. Fearing we'd be deprived of the cover wisdom of Cosmo's sexy sex sexperts, we came up with a substitute. First, get 100 index cards. Write "sex" on 75 of them. Then write "guys" on 20. Fill the remaining 5 with whatever random numbers and punctuation marks you want. Then pull these out of a bag at random and you have your very own Cosmo cover lines. Example: "Sex? Sex!! 15,000,000 Guys?!?!?" Luckily, Cosmo came through for us after all — check out our version of the (real) October cover after the jump. More »
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In an article for the Washington Post, Brett Krutzsch writes about being a bridesman. Not a groom, not a best man, not a bridesmaid; the best friend of a girl getting married. Who happens to be a dude. "I was her Will, she my Grace," Krutzsch explains. "We shared interests in theater, East Village wine bars and overpriced denim." Yeah, Krutzsch is gay. And his friend, Sara, asked him to be a bridesmaid. "I thought I would be a trailblazer as bridesman, but no fuss was made," he says. "The photographer never mistakenly put me in line with the groomsmen, and not one guest asked what it felt like to be a bridesmaid. The liberal New York crowd, however, wasn't remotely fazed by my nontraditional role. They didn't even blink when [my boyfriend] and I danced together at the reception." I don't know who this Sara person is, but I do know one thing: If I ever have a wedding, there will be a posse of guys on my side of the altar. And not because I'm a copycat. More »
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How many times have you had the conversation where you're like, so-and-so is cute, and your friend goes, "Yeah, but his hair is too long/shirt is ugly/shoes are bad"? Men are critical of women, this we know, but in a survey written about in the Daily Mail, 47% of women said there is at least one thing they would change about their partner's appearance. It's like that movie where Melissa Joan Hart gave Adrian Grenier a makeover! Because if you're a girl who likes guys then you know: Sometimes dudes need help. Even in this age of so-called metrosexuality, while women get manicures, waxes, highlights and sweater de-fuzzers, men often show up with shitty haircuts, crappy clothes, yellow teeth and stoopid shoes. More »
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