I need to do laundry. I'm supposed to be going out in 3 hours with a friend who is only in town tonight. I have about 5 million other little chores I need to finish.
I never, never let anything come between me and a good nap. (Life-threatening emergencies are the exception) It looks like you shouldn't be encouraged, but I say do it! #Groupthink(Edit comment)
SITUATION: We live in a large-enough city. We have a good rent in an amazing neighborhood. We pay $760/mo for our two bedroom with a yard and private parking in a hip place. I have a job; my husband is in his dissertation stage of his PhD.
WHY I WANT TO BUY: - I want a house! - I'm all about using our money, and it makes sense to buy. (Only two, but big ones.)
WHY I WORRY OR DONT' WANT TO BUY: - I don't know how long we'll stay here (Mr. will look for jobs once he becomes Dr.; probably move in a few years. It seems silly to buy a house to live in for a few years. - I don't want to be strapped with a house we can't sell if we decide to move.
There are some other considerations (down payment savings is daunting; we'd have to leave this neighborhood to afford something, and I don't want to), but those are the majors.
I think, for your situation, stick with the renting until the Mr. gets a job and you both get more long-term plans. Even if you think you can sell/rent if you have to move away soon, it's still more hassle than its worth. That's just my opinion, though. I know everyone is saying it's the best time to buy right now, but just because it's a buyer's market doesn't mean you have to buy if you can. Owning a home is a HUGE long-term responsibility, even if you don't plan on being in it long-term. #Groupthink(Edit comment)
Don't buy. You'll be leaving in a few years and you don't want the stress of selling your house while job hunting.
Start saving for a house now so that when the Mr. and you get the jobs in the right place and you feel like putting down roots you'll be ready.
House are expensive, they come with closing costs, major and sometimes unexpected repairs, and higher insurance premiums.
The only good thing about it is that your mortgage will be consistent vs the change of a landlord raising your rent or even deciding to not renew your lease. #Groupthink
The old wisdom is that you'll break even on a house (financially) after about 7 years of living there.
But in those 7 years, you'll be doing all the maintenance yourself, incurring renovation costs that you'll have a hard time recouping, and have less flexibility.
At the end, you're left with an asset that you'll have a very hard time selling when you want to, for a price you like.
If you'd like to have the HOUSE!!! feeling, find a good landlord looking to rent a house you really like, and negotiate the option to extend the lease in 1-year increments for 5 years. (that way you'll feel like you have a place you can put down roots). #Groupthink
So I started a new job semi-recently, and for a bunch of stupid reasons, my formal hiring process kept being delayed. That means that I missed the first two pay days, but my formal hiring process was completed a couple of weeks ago when the school of graduate studies finally signed off on it. So today should have been my first pay day, except I didn't get paid. Would it be rude to email my supervisor and be like, wtf? #Groupthink(Edit comment)
I think that's definitely acceptable. There must have been a mistake, and waiting a month to be paid is terrible. I'm sure your supervisor will understand. #Groupthink(Edit comment)
How many of you wanna bet that this person is not a woman or married lesbian with a full-time job? I'm thinking...angry white bro pretending to be all this stuff because maybe we'll listen to his woman-hating, slut-shamingness if he pretends to be 'one of us.' Yea.....also? Troll.
Of course the article is about how the majority of women refuse to believe in the war on women. And this person is almost perfectly reiterating the current opinion of the patriarchy about such things...I don't know. #groupthink
I was thinking the exact same thing. I'm not doubting that there isn't lesbian women out there in the world who feel that way, but every bit of it seems to strike me as some mra or something trying to gain more credibility. It just doesn't feel like real lived experiences from a lesbian. #Groupthink(Edit comment)
Looking back on the person's posts, I think you are right. Claiming that all FDA approved contraception is free raises the flag. #Groupthink(Edit comment)
There are a lot of misinformed women out there, but if it helps support your theory, a quick look at their profile shows that this is the first and only article they've ever commented on, and they have 0 friends and 1 follower (a person who commented on their comment on this article), which seems to have a solid whiff of troll about it #Groupthink(Edit comment)
Well, it's like I always say...women aren't immune to stupidity, ignorance and cognitive dissonance. It doesn't really matter if it's a woman or not. The fact that this person is an ignorant, smug ass surpasses gender. Heh. #Groupthink(Edit comment)
That comment was just ... I don't even know. "Office politics" isn't about smelly guys or men giving us ladies inappropriate looks. I've worked in a field dominated by women my entire life and office politics are alive and well here too. Like anywhere else, it's usually about favoritism/cronyism, being overworked and underpaid, people taking credit for others' work, unfair distribution of workload ... I could go on, but you get the point. I'm sorry that this person's possibly-fake wife is the office drama queen, but that is not what most women are talking about when they complain about office politics. #Groupthink(Edit comment)
Yea, that's what gets me. Absolutely no insight into what it means to be a woman...this person does not think like a normal (even a super conservative) woman... #Groupthink(Edit comment)
ZOMGGGGGG Supernatural Jezzies, get this. I just bought two tickets to the March 2013 Supernatural convention in Vegas. I had to go into my savings and I sooo shouldn't have done it, and I don't even have anyone in my life who is a Supernatural fan who could go with me, but I DON'T CARE! Both of the stars are going to be there and I bought a ticket to get a pic with them/meet them.
How did I get obsessed with this show so quickly? Whatevs. You know, my other superfandom Buffy was already off the air when I got into it so I never got to do anything like this. SO EXCITED. I'm SO DUMB for spending but I'm SO EXCITED.
See, that's another one! X-files. I love it but I started watching it last year! So I'm kinda watching on my own with no one to geek out over it with me and no more conventions. I so rarely geek on something while it is still on the air and relevant to other people. SOoo this is pretty exciting. Yes, nerdy, but I've long ago accepted that about myself. After all, I did attend a Star Trek convention when I was 19 and 'Voyager' had just come out (it's my dirty secret, but this is anonymous right?). It was the first Trek with a female captain and I was so thrilled. That day on, I would never again be able to claim myself as anything but an enormous nerd. HA! #Groupthink(Edit comment)
First of all...hearted. Second of all, if you do go (I bought the Saturday only tix cause that's when the two leads will be there) you have to tell me and then we can have a Jezzie happy hour or something. :D #Groupthink(Edit comment)
I realize just how much rain can make me feel shitty. I like summer rain back home, but I'm visiting my cousin and it's cold and rainy here. Blegh. I feel groggy and lazy and down, and I know it's because it's fucking rainy and cold. #Groupthink(Edit comment)
It's the start of the summer thunderstorms in the DC area, and we've been dealing with them for a full week. Bums me the hell out: the humidity, the lack of sun, the heat, the bugs... So glad this is my last summer here! #Groupthink(Edit comment)
Oh that sucks. I live near the Philly area and I generally don't mind the weather there or the summer rain there because it doesn't occur too often (but it does get humid!). I'm in Toronto right now and the weather has fluctuated from hot and humid to just right to rainy and cold all within 5 days. Not cool. #Groupthink(Edit comment)
I have no idea what to do for a second date. Is it too soon to cook dinner? I'm such a homebody it's sad and there's not the issue of who pays since I'll be cooking. #Groupthink(Edit comment)
Maybe a picnic? It usually costs less than going out (even if you splurge and buy dessert/wine/whatnot), and (hopefully) your date will offer to bring/make something. Plus, it avoids having your date over, unless you're ready for that. Or...playing pool? Bowling? Brewery tour? Concert? #Groupthink(Edit comment)
So, I don't know where else to turn really since I'm super embarrassed and non of my friends really have this problem as far as I know of. In short, I've been dealing with an abysmal sex drive for about a year now, and I have a boyfriend.
In my early teens I used to have a pretty high sex drive, and in the first year of the relationship (after we got out of that crazy new-boyfriend/girlfriend sex phase) was also pretty solid. But around this time last year it's as if someone hit the off button and I haven't been able to recover since. At worst I am disgusted with sex, and at best I think it's a giant waste of time. I don't think it has much to do with my attraction to my boyfriend as I still love him, and desperately wish I had a semblance of a sex drive to please him. Also, it's not as if I have interest in anyone else physically. I've had the odd crush or two on other people this year, but even with them the thought of having sex with them just seems... awful.
The boyfriend has been stupendously understanding with me, thankfully.
Just uggh, I don't know what to do. Best case scenario: everyone and the world looses interest in sex as well and we can live on as sexless beings. Second best case scenario: giant meteor crashes into earth. #Groupthink
Are you on birth control? Sometimes that can really mess up your sex drive. The effect doesn't have to be immediate either, but can slowly happen over a period of time. #Groupthink(Edit comment)
I don't have an answer for you, but I'm going through the same thing and I can only offer sympathy. It's such a distressing feeling, and a lonely one too. I'm hoping your get helpful replies. (Edit comment)
1. (Most extreme) You decide that you are asexual. You inform your boyfriend. Decisions made from there.
2. You want your sex drive back because (any combo of the following) you used to like it, because it makes your relationship with your boyfriend good or you miss it. Then go see your doctor.
3. Continue on current trajectory
What may be unpopular that I have to say, is that your boyfriend is understanding now, but you need to find out how important sex is to him and if it is how can you build a relationship together that fulfills BOTH of your needs. Is that an open relationship? Is this breaking up? Do you need to change? Does he?
Essentially, as a relationship is a partnership, and sex is a relationship issue, start with him and his expectations. You know where yours are right now. #Groupthink
Is it possible you just need to relax your views regarding proper frequency of sexual activity? Or is it that you don't even wanna be touched in a sexual manner? Are there other things going on in your life that may have had an effect on your desire, for instance a new stressor or new meds? One thing that struck me yesterday, that made me supremely happy about my own sexless situation, was that just because I have offers of sex and just because I've had sex does not mean I have to take those people up on those offers, or even have sex if I don't want to. Finally, do you have any clue as to why you started thinking in those terms about sex (disgust and waste of time)? Sometimes people lose interest and that's fine. But if it's causing you distress, that's a problem. I'd suggest seeking out a sex therapist, one perferably with a psychology degree who did their dissertation on some area of sexuality. They tend to be the best and most helpful. I hope you feel better no matter how this turns out. :) #Groupthink(Edit comment)
TheLilacUnicorn said exactly what I was thinking. That situation sounds almost identical to when I was on the pill. Even if you have been on the same one for 10 years and never noticed anything, it still could be related.
Another thing is have you been dealing with any depression/anxiety/stress? For some people loss of libido is a huge red-flag for depression. And ironic enough, a huge amount of the medication for depression can also kill you sex drive, so if you have started taking anything in the last year, that might be a cause. #Groupthink
Have you seen a doctor? Such a sudden change in your sex drive could be due to completely phsyical medical reasons and there might be things you can do, mediction wise or even lifestyle-wise, that might help bring it back if that's what you want. #Groupthink(Edit comment)
Does anyone here take sam-e for mild depression? I've been taking 200mg for the last five days and I am definitely less pessimistic but I still can't get shit done.
I used to take it, then my stomach started hurting so much that I stopped :/ Granted, I was taking the higher dose, but still. When I was taking it and my stomach wasn't twisting itself in ten different ways, it worked. Give it time. #Groupthink(Edit comment)
So apparently I'm a masochist but I was reading an article about the publicly revealed sexual history of a priest that was sexually abusing children ([news.ca.msn.com]). One thing that struck me about his history (other than the fact that he apparently didn't realise what he was doing was harmful and illegal) was that his, "authoritarian father [. . .] forced him to read a sex education book" apparently this terrified him, at the time he was 13. This got me worried, with 1) dear goodness I want to educate my children in regards to sex at an early age with age appropriate material and knowledge such as the appropriate names of body parts and 2) I really hope no conservative numbskulls seize upon this a say, "look this is what happens when you teach sexual education, they turn into child molesters". Obviously this is not the case, millions of people recieve proper sex-ed and don't turn out to be child molesters and clearly his circumstances contributed to his proclivity (fear of growing up, demanding father who had little respect for his wishes, his own experience of sexual abuse, no way for him to get help, lack of knowledge [apparently] that his actions were wrong and illegal, etc) and yet it freaks me out. :( #Groupthink(Edit comment)
One of the commenter's on the 1:3 women post is making me so angry. I am not supposed to be this angry on Friday's, that is why I stayed away from the Bro article. Grrrrr. Now there is a huge fly buzzing around me that I thought I had shooed away this morning and he is back to torment me. Why can't this day be over?! #groupthink(Edit comment)
Krispy Kreme, LaMar's Donuts, Dunkin' Donuts (with purchase of a drink), Shipley Do-Nuts (participating locations) and Tim Horton's ("like" them on Facebook to get your free donut coupon) are all participating.
Reasons to get yourself a free donut: - they're fucking delicious, duh; - it's Friday; - free things taste better (except for sushi); - you pre-burn the calories eaten by standing in line/elbowing through the crowd; - when was the last time you really treated yourself; - they go well with a nutritionally balanced lunch or dinner; - like you were going to get any work done this afternoon, anyway; - you do what the interwebs tell you to do; and - it's probably the most American thing you can possibly do today. You love your country, right? (Or "the most Canadian", for the Tim Horton's folks).
I read that too and I didn't see what was going to happen to him. Hopefully he will rot in jail till his trial cough*forever*cough, he may just have to pay more though based on his actual finances. Also who the fuck is donating a few hundred thousand dollars to Zimmerman? #groupthink(Edit comment)
Right?! I mean, shit, that website was up for like a week and he received $135,000 in donations?? If that wasn't so disgusting, I might actually be impressed, especially considering how shocking it is that so many of his supporters were smart enough to figure out how to use PayPal. #Groupthink(Edit comment)
Why do I sabotage myself by not taking my meds? I cannot function. Oh yeah, my friend's wedding is today and I don't even know if I can manage getting ready and going, especially when I'll know no one there. #Groupthink(Edit comment)
When we have a cold we take medication. When the cold is over we stop. Having a mental condition is like having a forever cold and it's easy to confuse the two because when you feel okay, well, you aren't taking your meds. Diabetics and heart patients, Crohn's and HIV/AIDS sufferers all take meds on the regular. You need to, as well.
I take "head meds" so I know where of I speak. Don't beat yourself up, okay? This only makes you feel worse than you do. Just set a timer on your phone to take your meds every single day and know that as you do this, when you do this, you are helping yourself and helping those who love you (like your friend getting married today). Today will be rough but tomorrow will be a wee less rough, and so on, and so on, until with time and work and loving yourself you won't have a bad day quite like this again.
So I dyed my hair a few days ago and it came out a few shades lighter than I was hoping for. It doesn't look bad but it's still a little too blah. What do you guys think about dyeing my hair so soon after dyeing it the first time? I'm sure it's not great for my hair but if it wouldn't do too much damage should I give it a try? #Groupthink(Edit comment)
My hairstylist once performed a bad-dye-rescue miracle after I got in a fight with a bottle of bleach and red dye. (I don't do rose-colored hair. It doesn't suit at all.) I'd recommend seeing a professional, though, if at all possible. #Groupthink(Edit comment)
Depends on the color. Browns are usually less harsh than other shades. One thing you could do is put a non permenant dye over top. That shouldn't hurt your hair since they don't have ammonia or anything overyly harsh. #Groupthink(Edit comment)
Be careful about choosing color when dying over dyed hair. The two colors can clash and make it worse. If you're not sure about what the results will be, either go to a salon or ask the smart people at a beauty supply store (Sally's or somewhere).
Buy some of the conditioning packets (Ion is my favorite brand) and you should be fine. What's the problem isn't you damaging your hair, it's making it look even worse. #Groupthink
Sometimes colors mellow/oxidize a little over a couple of days, so the best thing to do is get a temporary rinse or color and see if it darkens a bit. You can dye it again, but you'll want a color that looks a little lighter than what you're going for (or else it'll be too dark), and condition it like crazy. Ideally, do a deep condition, then wash it and don't condition it right before color (too-conditioned hair will not take color as well). #Groupthink(Edit comment)
There were articles here and on Gawker about this a few weeks ago. Guess you don't spend all of your free time refreshing their pages!! :) #Groupthink(Edit comment)
Y'all, what the everloving fuck? Want to put a female Deomcratic Senator in her place? Just hurl acid at her face.
[thinkprogress.org]
#groupthink
(Edit comment)#tips
Covered.
[jezebel.com] #Groupthink
(Edit comment)Y'all, what the everloving fuck? Want to put a female Deomcratic Senator in her place? Just hurl acid at her face.
[thinkprogress.org] #Groupthink
(Edit comment)I need to do laundry. I'm supposed to be going out in 3 hours with a friend who is only in town tonight. I have about 5 million other little chores I need to finish.
All I want to do is take a nap. #Groupthink
(Edit comment)Rent or buy advice needed
SITUATION: We live in a large-enough city. We have a good rent in an amazing neighborhood. We pay $760/mo for our two bedroom with a yard and private parking in a hip place. I have a job; my husband is in his dissertation stage of his PhD.
WHY I WANT TO BUY:
- I want a house!
- I'm all about using our money, and it makes sense to buy.
(Only two, but big ones.)
WHY I WORRY OR DONT' WANT TO BUY:
- I don't know how long we'll stay here (Mr. will look for jobs once he becomes Dr.; probably move in a few years. It seems silly to buy a house to live in for a few years.
- I don't want to be strapped with a house we can't sell if we decide to move.
There are some other considerations (down payment savings is daunting; we'd have to leave this neighborhood to afford something, and I don't want to), but those are the majors.
What's your advice or thoughts? #Groupthink
(Edit comment)Don't buy. You'll be leaving in a few years and you don't want the stress of selling your house while job hunting.
Start saving for a house now so that when the Mr. and you get the jobs in the right place and you feel like putting down roots you'll be ready.
House are expensive, they come with closing costs, major and sometimes unexpected repairs, and higher insurance premiums.
The only good thing about it is that your mortgage will be consistent vs the change of a landlord raising your rent or even deciding to not renew your lease. #Groupthink
(Edit comment)The old wisdom is that you'll break even on a house (financially) after about 7 years of living there.
But in those 7 years, you'll be doing all the maintenance yourself, incurring renovation costs that you'll have a hard time recouping, and have less flexibility.
At the end, you're left with an asset that you'll have a very hard time selling when you want to, for a price you like.
If you'd like to have the HOUSE!!! feeling, find a good landlord looking to rent a house you really like, and negotiate the option to extend the lease in 1-year increments for 5 years. (that way you'll feel like you have a place you can put down roots). #Groupthink
(Edit comment)[jezebel.com]
How many of you wanna bet that this person is not a woman or married lesbian with a full-time job? I'm thinking...angry white bro pretending to be all this stuff because maybe we'll listen to his woman-hating, slut-shamingness if he pretends to be 'one of us.' Yea.....also? Troll.
Of course the article is about how the majority of women refuse to believe in the war on women. And this person is almost perfectly reiterating the current opinion of the patriarchy about such things...I don't know. #groupthink
(Edit comment)ZOMGGGGGG Supernatural Jezzies, get this. I just bought two tickets to the March 2013 Supernatural convention in Vegas. I had to go into my savings and I sooo shouldn't have done it, and I don't even have anyone in my life who is a Supernatural fan who could go with me, but I DON'T CARE! Both of the stars are going to be there and I bought a ticket to get a pic with them/meet them.
How did I get obsessed with this show so quickly? Whatevs. You know, my other superfandom Buffy was already off the air when I got into it so I never got to do anything like this. SO EXCITED. I'm SO DUMB for spending but I'm SO EXCITED.
Enable me peoples!
#Groupthink
(Edit comment)#groupthink
#whyisntthisshowingupingroupthi...?
#imahugenerdandiacknowledgethat
TMI venting regarding sexuality:
So, I don't know where else to turn really since I'm super embarrassed and non of my friends really have this problem as far as I know of. In short, I've been dealing with an abysmal sex drive for about a year now, and I have a boyfriend.
In my early teens I used to have a pretty high sex drive, and in the first year of the relationship (after we got out of that crazy new-boyfriend/girlfriend sex phase) was also pretty solid. But around this time last year it's as if someone hit the off button and I haven't been able to recover since. At worst I am disgusted with sex, and at best I think it's a giant waste of time. I don't think it has much to do with my attraction to my boyfriend as I still love him, and desperately wish I had a semblance of a sex drive to please him. Also, it's not as if I have interest in anyone else physically. I've had the odd crush or two on other people this year, but even with them the thought of having sex with them just seems... awful.
The boyfriend has been stupendously understanding with me, thankfully.
Just uggh, I don't know what to do.
(Edit comment)Best case scenario: everyone and the world looses interest in sex as well and we can live on as sexless beings. Second best case scenario: giant meteor crashes into earth. #Groupthink
There are several ways to go about this.
1. (Most extreme) You decide that you are asexual. You inform your boyfriend. Decisions made from there.
2. You want your sex drive back because (any combo of the following) you used to like it, because it makes your relationship with your boyfriend good or you miss it. Then go see your doctor.
3. Continue on current trajectory
What may be unpopular that I have to say, is that your boyfriend is understanding now, but you need to find out how important sex is to him and if it is how can you build a relationship together that fulfills BOTH of your needs. Is that an open relationship? Is this breaking up? Do you need to change? Does he?
Essentially, as a relationship is a partnership, and sex is a relationship issue, start with him and his expectations. You know where yours are right now. #Groupthink
(Edit comment)One thing that struck me yesterday, that made me supremely happy about my own sexless situation, was that just because I have offers of sex and just because I've had sex does not mean I have to take those people up on those offers, or even have sex if I don't want to.
Finally, do you have any clue as to why you started thinking in those terms about sex (disgust and waste of time)?
Sometimes people lose interest and that's fine. But if it's causing you distress, that's a problem. I'd suggest seeking out a sex therapist, one perferably with a psychology degree who did their dissertation on some area of sexuality. They tend to be the best and most helpful.
I hope you feel better no matter how this turns out. :)
#Groupthink (Edit comment)
TheLilacUnicorn said exactly what I was thinking. That situation sounds almost identical to when I was on the pill. Even if you have been on the same one for 10 years and never noticed anything, it still could be related.
Another thing is have you been dealing with any depression/anxiety/stress? For some people loss of libido is a huge red-flag for depression. And ironic enough, a huge amount of the medication for depression can also kill you sex drive, so if you have started taking anything in the last year, that might be a cause. #Groupthink
(Edit comment)I need to never ever read the comments on a Kotaku article ever again.
[kotaku.com]
#groupthink
(Edit comment)Does anyone here take sam-e for mild depression? I've been taking 200mg for the last five days and I am definitely less pessimistic but I still can't get shit done.
#groupthink
(Edit comment)This got me worried, with 1) dear goodness I want to educate my children in regards to sex at an early age with age appropriate material and knowledge such as the appropriate names of body parts and 2) I really hope no conservative numbskulls seize upon this a say, "look this is what happens when you teach sexual education, they turn into child molesters". Obviously this is not the case, millions of people recieve proper sex-ed and don't turn out to be child molesters and clearly his circumstances contributed to his proclivity (fear of growing up, demanding father who had little respect for his wishes, his own experience of sexual abuse, no way for him to get help, lack of knowledge [apparently] that his actions were wrong and illegal, etc) and yet it freaks me out. :( #Groupthink (Edit comment)
It's National Donut Day!
Krispy Kreme, LaMar's Donuts, Dunkin' Donuts (with purchase of a drink), Shipley Do-Nuts (participating locations) and Tim Horton's ("like" them on Facebook to get your free donut coupon) are all participating.
[www.huffingtonpost.com]
Reasons to get yourself a free donut:
- they're fucking delicious, duh;
- it's Friday;
- free things taste better (except for sushi);
- you pre-burn the calories eaten by standing in line/elbowing through the crowd;
- when was the last time you really treated yourself;
- they go well with a nutritionally balanced lunch or dinner;
- like you were going to get any work done this afternoon, anyway;
- you do what the interwebs tell you to do; and
- it's probably the most American thing you can possibly do today. You love your country, right? (Or "the most Canadian", for the Tim Horton's folks).
#Groupthink
(Edit comment)Judge revoked Zimmerman's bond over misleading information about his finances.
So he'll sit in jail until his trial now? #Groupthink
(Edit comment)When we have a cold we take medication. When the cold is over we stop. Having a mental condition is like having a forever cold and it's easy to confuse the two because when you feel okay, well, you aren't taking your meds. Diabetics and heart patients, Crohn's and HIV/AIDS sufferers all take meds on the regular. You need to, as well.
I take "head meds" so I know where of I speak. Don't beat yourself up, okay? This only makes you feel worse than you do. Just set a timer on your phone to take your meds every single day and know that as you do this, when you do this, you are helping yourself and helping those who love you (like your friend getting married today). Today will be rough but tomorrow will be a wee less rough, and so on, and so on, until with time and work and loving yourself you won't have a bad day quite like this again.
XO #Groupthink
(Edit comment)Be careful about choosing color when dying over dyed hair. The two colors can clash and make it worse. If you're not sure about what the results will be, either go to a salon or ask the smart people at a beauty supply store (Sally's or somewhere).
Buy some of the conditioning packets (Ion is my favorite brand) and you should be fine. What's the problem isn't you damaging your hair, it's making it look even worse. #Groupthink
(Edit comment)O.M.G.
50 Shades of Grey the Audiobook, read by Gilbert Gottfried
[www.liveleak.com]
#tips
(Edit comment)#groupthink
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