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				What to do if the creator of the eponymous <a href="http://www.nypost.com/p/news/national/dear_abby_family_feud_hRoIlPgvQq6A28wLs8l7DO">advice column</a>, suffering from Alzheimer's, is allegedly being bilked out of her earnings by her daughter - according to her son? We say: be really depressed. [<a href="http://www.nypost.com/p/news/national/dear_abby_family_feud_hRoIlPgvQq6A28wLs8l7DO">NY Post</a>]				<a href="http://jezebel.com/5404089/dear-abby" title="Click here to read more about Dear Abby">More&nbsp;&raquo;</a>
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			<pubDate><![CDATA[Fri, 13 Nov 2009 11:30:00 EST]]></pubDate>
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				•  The city of Verona has opened up the <a href="http://www.reuters.com/article/lifestyleMolt/idUSTRE55065J20090601?feedType=RSS&feedName=lifestyleMolt">balcony where Juliet once pined for Romeo</a> to modern lovers as a venue for weddings.  Of course, the iconic setting comes at a steep price.  • 				<a href="http://jezebel.com/5274316/capulet-balcony-cleared-for-modern-weddings--iranian-candidate-voices-support-for-womens-rights" title="Click here to read more about Capulet Balcony Cleared For Modern Weddings • Iranian Candidate Voices Support For Women's Rights">More&nbsp;&raquo;</a>
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			<pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 01 Jun 2009 17:30:00 EDT]]></pubDate>
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				Here's a familiar familial tale! Remember the one about the woman who's fast asleep in her room when suddenly a man she <em>thinks</em> is her husband comes in and they have sex only to at some later point realize that it was actually her husband's perverted <em>brother</em>? Yes, Dear Abby got a query about this a few <a href="http://www.detnews.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20080317/OPINION03/803170306">weeks back</a>, and she didn't believe the story, so we <a href="http://jezebel.com/369889/dear-abby-strongly-doubts-your-wifes-rape-story">got all ragey about that</a>, and then <a href="http://jezebel.com/372802/savage-hate#viewcomments">Dan Savage</a> said he, too, disbelieved the story, and we unleashed some lite venom on <em>him</em>, but by that point our faith in our own instincts was somewhat shaken. So imagine how very <em>gratified</em> we are to report  to you now that the media has confirmed it: masquerading as your brother to rape her girl is actually a new trend! It happened &mdash; basement apartment and all! &mdash; to <a href="http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=90186100&ft=1&f=1001">Marissa Lee-Fuentes</a>.				<a href="http://jezebel.com/387353/that-dear-abby-my-brother-raped-my-wife-thing-actually-happened-and-it-was-legal" title="Click here to read more about That Dear Abby &quot;My Brother Raped My Wife&quot; Thing Actually Happened (And It Was Legal!?)">More&nbsp;&raquo;</a>
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			<pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 05 May 2008 17:00:00 EDT]]></pubDate>
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				All week, readers have been writing in about advice-giver Dan Savage's <a href="http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove">latest column</a>, in which Jezebel &mdash; specifically our response to that <a href="http://jezebel.com/369889/dear-abby-strongly-doubts-your-wifes-rape-story">awful 'Dear Abby' feature</a> from last week &mdash;  gets a negative mention. Personally, I didn't care one way or another about Savage's slam, but Moe sure did! With every email from a reader that came in, she shot off a response to the entire staff. Click on Savage's picture to read her increasingly-irate responses!				<a href="http://jezebel.com/372802/savage-hate" title="Click here to read more about Savage Hate">More&nbsp;&raquo;</a>
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			<pubDate><![CDATA[Thu, 27 Mar 2008 11:45:00 EDT]]></pubDate>
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			<pubDate><![CDATA[Fri, 21 Mar 2008 18:20:00 EDT]]></pubDate>
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				Dear Abby ('s daughter): I've never written you before, but I'm writing you now to ask for your resignation. It's with regards to some advice you recently gave a <a href="http://news.yahoo.com/s/ucda/20080317/lf_ucda/husbandremainsinthedarkaboutwifesnighttimevisitor;_ylt=AmVWU6caHxIRIopY7VqCp9TNbbUC">reader</a> who found himself in an odd predicament. While he was staying at his parents' house, one of his brothers raped his wife. In the darkness, the wife thought it was him. He doesn't know which brother it was. And none of the brothers will rat out the offending brother. It's an insane situation, for sure. You were right to be a little weirded out by it. But when you decided to forego any sort of censure of the offending brothers and get straight to your real suspicion about what happened: that the wife is a lying slut who needs an AIDS test and a strict talking-to. "Please do not accept as gospel that your wife didn't have an inkling that it wasn't you," you wrote. "It's time to have a serious chat with your wife and get chapter and verse on what happened that night." Abby, dear, I understand the skepticism. You're a woman. Women are more suspicious of other women, and the story sounds sketchy.				<a href="http://jezebel.com/369889/dear-abby-strongly-doubts-your-wifes-rape-story" title="Click here to read more about &quot;Dear Abby&quot; Strongly Doubts Your Wife's Rape Story">More&nbsp;&raquo;</a>
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				We always knew we liked Dear Abby (real name: Jeanne Phillips) for a reason!  The all-American advice-columnist <a href="http://www.examiner.com/a-980006~AP_Exlusive___Dear_Abby__announces_support_of_same_sex_marriage.html">has given the big thumbs up</a> to same-sex marriage: "There should be gay marriage. I believe if two people want to commit to each other, God bless 'em... That is the highest form of commitment, for heaven's sake... If gay Americans are not allowed to get married and have all the benefits that American citizens are entitled to by the Bill of Rights, they should get one hell of a tax break... Accepting the status quo is not always the best thing to do... Women were once considered chattel, and slavery was regarded as sanctioned in the Bible... I don't think I'm a flaming radical. I'm for civility in life."  Dear Abby, Will you run for President?  Please?  (On Barack's ticket of course.) Xo, Jez. [<a href="http://www.examiner.com/a-980006~AP_Exlusive___Dear_Abby__announces_support_of_same_sex_marriage.html">AP</a>]				<a href="http://jezebel.com/309340/" title="Click here to read more about 
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