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Are you having sex? Like, on a regular basis? CNN claims that women today have less time for sex than their 1950s counterparts. And if it's not a lack of time keeping you from bumping uglies, it's something else, but it's probably your fault. Writes Leslie Goldman, "It's harder to initiate sex if your spouse is hiding behind a newspaper or glued to the TV or if your hands are busy exploring the Web rather than his body." Hey, how come the dude in the picture doesn't just pry the laptop right out of the woman's hands and bang her? Why does the woman bear all the responsibility? Other reasons you're not having sex: You're on libido-killing contraceptives, you don't like your body, you're perimenopausal, you're depressed. (And if you're not depressed, you will be when you discover it's all your fault you're not getting laid.) But there's hope, courtesy of The Independent: A Valentine's Day list of aphrodisiacs to "boost your sex drive," ranging from oysters to female testosterone patches and uh, counseling. More »
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In the Guardian's "Private Lives" column today, a reader writes that she broke up with her boyfriend of seven years because two days before they were closing on the sale of a house, he told her he was worried about commitment. She said it had to be all or nothing; he chose nothing. Now, a couple the reader and her ex are friends with are also having problems: After being together for twenty years and planning summer nuptials, the man is suddenly not sure about marriage. The reader worries that her ex influenced the man. Here's the question: Are breakups contagious? More »
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