Beyoncé, Solange and the Insane Complexity of Sisters and MarriageTracy Moore 5/12/14 5:20pmFiled to: sistersmarriagerelationshipsfamilybeyoncésolangejay z21921EditPromoteShare to KinjaToggle Conversation toolsGo to permalinkRampant speculation aside, when I think about what went down in that elevator with Beyoncé and Solange and Jay-Z, I cannot help but be reminded that anytime there is a fight between your sister and your man, it is also — inextricably — about you. Because that's what it's like.Of course, none of us can really know what the deal is in that video. But I think many of us are struck by what it seems like — I am struck by the way it seems like Beyoncé isn't exactly diving in maniacally to stop it. It makes it seem like she thinks her sister's angry lunging is justified. Which makes it seem like what Solange is doing is defending Beyoncé, or defending herself. Maybe both.