"I don't really have a lot of friends, nor girlfriends. Most women say I am too sweet, and I don't know why."
Those are the words of a solemn, Lincoln beard-sporting young guy in his dating profile, a profile that recently became the first post of 2013 on Nice Guys of OkCupid. NGOKC, Katie Baker wrote, serves up "a roster of self-proclaimed ‘nice guys' who are actually total dicks;" in quotes culled from each man's profile there are familiar laments about being "too nice," getting stuck in the "friendzone." There are also expressions of sheer rage and misogynistic threats of violence: "all I want you to is bleed like I have."