zu_zu thinks we should all recognize that we don't just fantasize about other people being in the room while we're doing it, we want them to drink in the glory (WITH THEIR EYES):
4.) Having sex in front of other people who are watching.
I had to laugh at the caveat of "who are watching" as opposed to having sex in front of people who pay no attention.
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