Tim Gunn Has Not Had Sex in 29 Years

Tim Gunn opened up about his personal life on the new show he's co-hosting, The Revolution. He says that he's celibate — and happy. "I haven't had sex in 29 years," said the designer mentor and former Parsons dean. "Do I feel like less of a person because of it? No." Gunn says that an "intense" relationship that ended abruptly led him to give up sex. With tears in his eyes, Gunn said of his former partner, "He was impatient with my sexual performance." He characterized his celibate life as "perfectly fulfilled," and said, "I'm happy to be healthy and alive, frankly." Gunn has written and spoken about his personal life before, though never in such detail. In a touching 2011 essay for the Daily Beast, Gunn described the end of a nine-year relationship — "The only real relationship I've ever had" — and how he felt no twinges of love or infatuation for a whole decade after the breakup. Then, in 1992, he met someone he calls Daniel. For work, Gunn was traveling frequently to Asia at the time.

I met a flight attendant named Daniel, and I became very fond of him. On one of the flights, there was a baby broker coming back from Korea, bringing back babies who had been adopted in the United States. He didn't have enough handlers, and I was sitting in an exit row, and I thought, I'll hold a baby. This was a bonding experience for me and Daniel. When I left the plane, he asked if he could call me. I said yes.

They dated for a month, and Gunn says he felt the beginnings of a genuine connection — but a so-called friend talked him out of pursuing the relationship:

He went into a diatribe about what kind of cliché this was for a designer to date a flight attendant. He thought it was such a gay stereotype.

Gunn and Daniel stopped seeing each other, and as of last year, he was not over it. "This is still something I think about with a good deal of frequency," he wrote. "The irony is I ended up with no one." [Celebuzz]


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Shit Oscar PR Girl Says is funny, especially if you follow John Jannuzzi , Andrew Mukamal, Erica Domesek , or Oscar PR Girl Erika Bearman herself, on Twitter. [Textbook ]
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Victoria Beckham released this short video to advertise her upcoming lower-priced line. (We're not getting our hopes up: dresses will still be £500-£800 .) [YouTube ]
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Tim Gunn Has Not Had Sex in 29 Years '80s supermodel Inès de la Fressange is moonlighting as a photographer for Madame Figaro at the couture shows. [WWD ]
Tim Gunn Has Not Had Sex in 29 Years Those copyright scofflaws at PBS got themselves in trouble for shilling unauthorized, unlicensed Downton Abbey jewelry. The network had to pull such items as the "Lady Mary knotted pearl necklace and earring set," $159.99, after complaints from the production company and the show creator, Julian Fellowes. [Daily Mail ]
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