The F-Words: Faux Outrage Over Slutty Feminists Is F-cking Hurting AmericaAnna Holmes5/18/09 2:30pmFiled to: End/rantsThe ObserverAmelia hillFeminismLinda HirshmanDouble xstoopidUnashamed promiscuitygoodbye to all that54EditPromoteShare to KinjaToggle Conversation toolsGo to permalinkWell, this is some bullshit! (Of course, so is my hyperbolic headline.)AdvertisementOn Sunday, the Guardian Observer published a feature story titled "Sex, drink and fashion. Is this the new face of American feminism?" (Sounds like a gem of an idea for an Onion story.) In it, writers Amelia Hill and Eva Wiseman recount a supposed online "war" between this site – which will celebrate its 2-year anniversary this Thursday – and Double X, an offshoot of Slate that launched a week ago with an array of impressive essays on modern feminism.. and a handful of badly-received ones, including one by professional tantrum thrower Linda Hirshman, who accused Jezebel of harming the young women of America.If Hirshman's piece sounds absurd, it's because it IS absurd. In fact I laughed it off when it went up online, not only because it's patronizing to our readers, but its author made it embarrassingly clear that she was completely unfamiliar with our work and very bad at both basic facts and common decency when arguing her point. (Hirshman's screed contained an attack against two of this site's editors - current and former - and the decisions they made not to report their respective rapes; she may or may not hold a grudge against one or more of these editors.)AdvertisementBut back to the Observer piece. In addition to a misleading, accusatory, reductive and sensationalist headline, it, just like Ms. Hirshman's piece, spent numerous column inches misrepresenting our website, its staff, and a now-notorious, long-over public appearance by two of its writers. It, just like Hirshman's piece, was at best willfully ignorant, and at worst, deliberately nasty, except that the Observer attempted to assume an air of journalistic respectability with actual "reporting", i.e. the inclusion of a few more "traditional feminist" voices, including that of Briton Julie Bindel, who, after unilaterally revoking this site's feminist club card, went on to accuse us of being "lazy, bone-idle women who have no interest taking part in a political movement for change but are trying to get credibility for their selfish lives by playing identification politics."Yeah, fuck you too, lady.Which brings me to this: The F Word. It seems to me that all this manufactured brouhaha can be blamed on the fact that a few people have VERY specific opinions as to who can or cannot call herself a feminist. (I used to believe that the reluctance of young women to call themselves feminists could find its roots within the culture wars of the Reagan era; now, I'm not so sure. Perhaps Ms. Bindel's suggestion, "dickhead," is an unintentionally inspired alternative?)And let's be clear: this this brouhaha WAS manufactured. Last Thursday, an Observer writer, apparently unaware of this site's clearly-visible masthead, contacted a few of Jezebel's junior staffers requesting an interview; after the query was forwarded to me, I called her, chatted briefly, and agreed to answer some of her questions via email. (Apparently, none of these answers – my electronic back and forth with her can be seen here - warranted inclusion in her piece; another blogger had the misfortune of being misquoted, the second in as many days.) The writer suggested that she was interested in feminism and young feminists, but, as mentioned above, the piece ended up hyping a supposed "online war" that simply does not exist. (Don't women have to grapple with enough manufactured rivalries - for jobs, for the attentions of men - as it is?) If the Observer was actually interested in the sturm und drang between "traditional feminists" and other "young bloggers" - and I'm not convinced there really is any - why didn't their piece focus on the proprietors and activists behind any one of the dozens of well-written, carefully-curated, provocative feminist blogs? If they were interested in the debut of a new, high-profile, female-focused website, why didn't they write about that?