Tori Spelling Didn't Want A Girl, EitherSadie Stein5/14/09 4:00pmFiled to: baby talkTori SpellingBaby sexboysGirlsAbortionsex selectionParentsParentingMothersMomsBabiesPregnancy25EditPromoteShare to KinjaToggle Conversation toolsGo to permalinkMy biggest fear in life was having a girl," says Tori Spelling. What's with all the girl-hate?Recently we linked to a CNN article in which a mom discussed her preference for a boy over a girl baby. Now Tori Spelling is admitting to the same feelings, prior to giving birth to daughter Stella, now a year old. The product of a famously contentious relationship with her own mom, Candi, Spelling apparently worried about replicating the dynamic. "How was I going to handle a girl?" She asks in Cookie.