"Not Rape Epidemic": The Modeling Industry Is Anything But ImmuneTatianaTheAnonymousModel12/30/08 2:00pmFiled to: modelslipsNot rapelatoya petersonThe Not Rape Epidemicshades of gray rapesexual AssaultSexual HarassmentmodelingPersonal, politicalwhat it feels like for a girlTopGawker3722EditPromoteShare to KinjaToggle Conversation toolsGo to permalinkThe modeling industry sets up camp at the crossroads of youth & beauty and age & wealth — and moreover, it's an arena where those qualities cleave to the most predictable gender and power divide.Latoya Peterson's excellent essay, "The Not Rape Epidemic," a version of which was published in the brand new anthology Yes Means Yes, and was blogged about last week by Megan, isn't exactly a gentle holiday season comedown. But I was struck, reading the piece — which is both moving and important — by a strange feeling of recognition. Peterson defines a new term, "not rape" — the kind of sex and sexual attention young women get from men which is, if not outright unconsenting, some measure of coerced. Not rape is every kind of uncomfortable experience you're made to feel complicit in: for choosing to go to the party, for wanting the kisses but not knowing how to say 'No' to what came next, for ending up alone with someone you thought you could trust — or, in Peterson's case, for opening the screen door a few inches to a friend-of-a-friend one summer afternoon while her parents were out.ShareTweet Kinja is in read-only mode. We are working to restore service.