December Cosmo: This Season, May All Your Motives Be UlteriorAre you having trouble "catching a dude's eye" and "reeling him in"? You probably have too many friends, says this month's Cosmo. Hanging out with just one or two other women will keep the focus where it's supposed to be — on men. And when you're at the bar with your one friend, don't stand too close together. Guys will think you're "engrossed in an intimate convo" — an activity that, as Cosmo has explained on numerous occasions, is actually mildly poisonous to men. The trick — and this applies equally in the bar or the bedroom — is to act like you're having fun when really, you're trying to impress guys. Because having just one motive per night is for slackers. And skanks.December Cosmo: This Season, May All Your Motives Be UlteriorS