Telling A Child She's Beautiful Could Be Sending The Wrong MessageJessica G.4/09/08 12:30pmFiled to: on beautyAngelina JolieFay WeldonINFLooksismStandards Of BeautyBeautycate blanchettchild rearinginfdailyshiloh jolie pitt251EditPromoteShare to KinjaToggle Conversation toolsGo to permalink In today's Times of London, fashion editor Lisa Armstrong dissects what she deems our egregiously-lookist society. "Increasingly, looks are used to define women who never set out to compete by those rules," Armstrong points out. "The entire female flank of the French Cabinet has recently had their wardrobes pored over as if they were auditioning to fill in for Cate Blanchett on the red carpet while she takes a spot of maternity leave." Armstrong also quotes Fay Weldon, writer and insane-o, who, for once, makes a good point. "Nowadays, all little girls are told that they're beautiful by their mothers, even when they're not," Weldon says. "We're terribly conflicted. We don't want appearance to be important, but almost everything we do reinforces that they are."