On the Today Show this morning: A segment about getting engaged over the holidays that quickly devolved into a fairly insulting discussion about marriage and how, for some women, an engagement is the culmination of their life's work. (Ugh.) On the show were psychologists Robi Ludwig and Jeff Gardere, who seemed suspiciously, shall we say, not straight, despite the presence of a wedding ring and complaints about being a henpecked husband. Our take: He's gay! But Gawker Media videographer Richard Blakeley has other ideas! "He's just a Midtown metrosexual," says Richard. But wait! "I just watched it again," he says. "He is pretty gay." Decide for yourselves, ladies, by viewing the clip above. (You can see the entire video here.)

The Rules Of Engagement [Today Show]

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